yes, it kind of is a bit of a smack alongside the head with a very big baseball bat. in a metaphorical sense.
kacey is still shaken up by it. i wish there was something more i could give her to make things better, but i am only one girl, and truth told, it has hit me kind of hard as well. different reasons, mostly that i failed in my job to protect her.
please, yes, any pictures would help. and, even though it makes us sound a bit obsessed with tani, i would again ask for images as above. she is the one who made the con the most special for us both and we would dearly wish to remember her for that.