Hello Chari,
I am sorry to hear that your shirt doesn't fit.
In general, the normal shirts this year were even a little bit bigger than usual, so several people even choosed to buy a smaller size than usual. In contrast, the lady fits were smaller. The shirts can be identified by looking at the size label, black labels with white font were unisex, lady fits had a wider neck and white labels with black font. (this doesn't apply to the 4XL shirts, they're from a different brand)
The ConStore will be back in the Dealers' Den next year and sell the leftover stock from this year. I don't have a number at the moment, but there were some 4XL leftovers - so there's a good chance to get another one if you come early. When visiting us, just ask us to see the shirt more closely to see if it might fit.
Cheers
Vulniir